I am blessed to have good friends in every phase of life....
Coming to a different country was not that easy for me as I had to leave all my family and friends,but then I never realized that it was actually helping me to add another bunch of very good friends to my life..
I got friends through all sorts of communication net, work and very friendly flatmates ...hey recently I got a flight friend too... he is so sweet...my roomies say..how could you give your contact number to a person whom you met on flight..i was like what to do yaar.. he seems to be good,..and they goes tell me a person name whom you said bad... I believe people easily,I don't know whether it is one of my strength or not..but so far never had bad experiences , which made me to have a lot of friends.. They accepted me the way I speak, my ideas, my thoughts , my hobbies and finally my cooking( I should be really thankful to my flatmates for their patience to eat n praise the crap food I made ) too.. on the whole they accepted me the way I am.. all such good people turned my past 4 calender years in my life into 4 happy years with full of joy and many more happy smiles .....
Now I am going back home for good, I am happy but not so excited, I am not counting the days , I am not doing happy shopping, I am not telling my friends' hey...guess what I am going back..will eat this n that, will go here and there..will buy this and that etc etc.' like before when I used to go for a month or less than that . This time again it's my friends&flat mates whom i am gonna miss a lot and I don't even know if I am gonna meet some of them in future...my previous experience to get over such situations is not helping me to bring a happy smile on my face ....
I don't want to miss them..at least few of them..but I have to...accept the life as it comes..
Touching post, I know how you feel coz I've gone through the same phase several times in life. All the best, trust in God and keep your friends close to your heart.
Thanks for stopping by swapna, yes it was vey hard and seems to be tough further...
You know I am also very lucky , just like you, to have good friends in our lives. I have always been lucky with my friends and mentors. I guess life becomes less complicated when you have friends beside you. God bless you:)
thanks ekam, yes I feel so lucky to have good friends who makes me smile even when they are far way...